Today’s Coffee Question

Hi Dakota,
Over the last few months, I have been working with a shamanic practitioner in order to help cope with caring for my husband. He finally died in March, after 5 years of slow dying. Hard to watch. My question is this, I long to move forward in learning this work, and yet I am wiped out from these five years of struggle. Do you have any wise suggestions to help me clear my soul of all this …..

For years I have channeled stories and only recently realized they could be journeys, so have started saving them on a facebook page as Dream Journeys.

Thanks and looking forward to learning.

Steph

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